Recently, I celebrated a birthday and decided to have a crochet party. It was a lot of fun, but it didn’t come without a bit of frustration too. Many of my friends didn’t know how to crochet before coming to my party and I discovered just how hard it was to teach someone how to crochet for the first time. Not to worry, we all ended up with some practice swatches and I think I got them all “hooked” on crocheting!
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Pay attention to gauge. Unless you are making a scarf or a dishcloth, gauge is very important. Without the right gauge, your work will not look or fit correctly.
I would explain to them that a crochet is a yarn over and pulling through two loops. Double is doing it twice, treble is doing it three times etc. I would have them start out on a piece with maybe twenty chain stitches and have them keep going back and forth and that a stitch is usually both loops on the top. Explain to them that the chain(s) up at the end of the row count as a crochet. They should make sure they have twenty stitches at the end of each row. Then practice, practice, practice until they see even tension.
Slow down! Make your movements slow and deliberate, so you can watch what your muscles are learning to do.
My tip would be to stay relaxed. You’re learning a new hobby, not trying to defuse a bomb that’s about to go off. A mistake can be undone, it won’t destroy all life on the planet! It’s almost painful sometimes to watch a new crocheter, with their jaw set, teeth grinding, forehead furrowed and eyes all squinty, trying to stab the needle into the right place. Although it sounds counter-intuitive, I find that splitting their attention by keeping them engaged in a non-crochet conversation helps them avoid tensing up so much.
Do NOT crochet tightly. It only causes frustration when you’re first learning. My mother taught me this. I still crochet rather loosely, but it’s easier to tighten up and work on consistent tension later.
Make your starting chain loose or else do it with the next size up crochet hook. It will make doing your first pattern row easier. If size matters, make sure you do a practice peice so you know that your gauge matches the directions before starting your project. Until you are confortable working on your projects, don’t try to do anything else simiultaneously.
Always count your stitches! It’s way too easy to accidentally skip the previous row’s turning chain or to just skip a stitch anywhere. When I was learning, not counting my stitches after each row frustrated me many more times than was necessary because I was too lazy or overconfident to count them every row.
If you are confused by a pattern or are having trouble understanding written instructions on how to do a particular stitch, YouTube is a great source for crochet how-tos.
Start with simple stitches and practice them until they look great and even. A beautifully stitched piece of single crocheted or double crocheted stitches looks better than a poorly stitched piece of fancy stitches. Once you have the simple stitches down, the fancier stitches will fall into place easier. Enjoy your new art and have fun with color and don’t be afraid to try something new, just do it!
My advice is always RELAX! It doesn’t matter if you make mistakes, crochet takes practice and patience! (It seems to have worked wonders with everyone I have met who were seriously afraid of learning!) Also I start by teaching them to chain until they feel comfortable holding the crochet hook!
just start with something that truely excites you so you keep concentraited then you will enjoy learning never start with something boring like a patch or a scarf
I would tell them to start simple and be patient. Diving in first thing with a larger project can be discouraging. Dish clothes and simple baby blankets are great.
Go slow .. Take ur time.. Don’t give up! Watch a lot of YouTube videos
Always read all of the directions before starting any project and practice any stitches you are not familiar with so once you start the project, you can just crochet away.
My #1 tip for new crocheters is ‘don’t give up!’ Your first lesson (chain, and single crochet in to the chain) is ALWAYS the hardest because you are learning not only a new craft but training your brain and hands a new way to work and move. And, by the end of your lesson, you will know 100% more than you did before you started. It just gets easier after the first lesson 🙂 So, don’t give up!
Take your time learning the stitches and getting familiar with them! Don’t rush to do any particular project, get your stitches down right, and then you can start with projects!
# 1 tip(s) Don’t be afraid to pull out your work and try again! … start with something easy, where gauge doesn’t matter … like a baby blanket, a hot pad, scarf, etc, and NEVER give up because of how your first project turns out 🙂
Don’t worry about making mistakes. There is no shame in pulling stitches out and redoing it correctly. This is how you learn and improve. just remember it is supposed to be fun!
Work LOOSELY. It is so much easier when you can get your hook through the work! That’s the biggest mistake I see beginners making. The second one is trying to go too fast when first starting. You need to go slowly and deliberately as you learn the stitches. As you progress you can gain speed.
Start with the basics and Practice . . Practice . . Practice
Take your time and go slow. . . There isn’t a time limit.
Read the pattern carefully and go over the abbreviations before you start.
And remember . . It’s supposed to be fun, not frustrating. Don’t be afraid to ask for help.
First pick something simple to make like granny squares or pot holders, use a medium size hook like G or H (they are the easiest to hold and manipulate) next make sure to keep count of your stitches and be patient! It may take a few tries to get your project the way you want it to turn out. Last, enjoy yourself,and relax, don’t put unrealistic time limits on yourself, give yourself plenty of time to finish your project.
Relax and enjoy it! Crochet is supposed to be fun! Keep your tension loose so your hook can find the stitches, Just play with the yarn, play with the stitches, and you’ll be surprised at how quickly the motions become automatic. And, above all, HAVE FUN!
My #1 tip for crochet beginners is to never give up. If you really want to learn, keep trying. I taught myself when I was 10 years old. I learned the chain stitch first, then the single crochet, double crochet and so forth.. I eventually learned how to read crochet instructions by reading and crocheting the stitch. Basically it was trial and error at first, but I never gave up. I wanted to crochet so badly. If I got frustrated, I would lay it down and come back to it later. Always hold your thread snug but not tight. Good luck and happy crocheting. I am now 74 years old and have made and sold many baby blankets, afghans, sweaters, hoods, scarves, and dishcloths.
Relax! There is no harm…no foul on pulling out stitches and starting again! No project is carved in stone! So…just relax, have fun and enjoy your final effort…its all good!
Practice, practice, practice! I was some what frustrated when I first learned to crochet and at times felt like I wouldn’t get it! Finally after months of practice I felt like it finally clicked and everything fell into place from that point on. 🙂
From that point, choose a really easy basic pattern to start with!
The 3 most important things are 1. count your stitches 2. use your stitch markers and 3. READ THE PATTERN carefully all the way through before beginning. No shortcuts on those and it will look like it should when you are done!
Use light colored yarn so the stitches can be seen easily, a beginner pattern with minimal joining and don’t get frustrated. You’ll mess up but that’s part of the learning process.
Use your stitch markers! It helps with learning to count.
1. Use a safety pin or a piece of contrasting yarn to mark your rows and/or stitches, so you don’t lose your place. Invariably someone will say something to you while you are trying to count and you will lose your train of thought.
2. Start with a small project while you are learning, so it won’t be overwhelming and take months to complete. Finish something small in just an hour or two and it will give you instant gratification and build your confidence level.
Just take your time. Relax with it. So what if the 1st thing you try looks goofy?! I have taught a few people in my time. And I will still get people asking me at my breaks at work, how do I? I always have something with me at work to keep my hands busy during breaks. And people will look at me when I have to take something out and start again!
Leave a tail at least 6 inches long starting or ending each color… This will give you plenty of yarn to weave back and forth a couple time to hide the end of the yarn…
My tip for beginners: Know, ahead of time, that mistakes happen. Take it slow. Get used to the yarn, AND your hook. You’ll do “so much”, pull it all out, and start over MANY times. The KEY: Have fun with it.
The most important thing to teach a new crocheter is patience. Nothing is learned overnight and if you expect perfection while learning you don’t even need to try. I am a very experienced crocheter, if I am trying out a new stitch or pattern I use a light colored yarn and a large hook, I do not try to hit gauge for the pattern, I just want to learn how to do the stitch or pattern and it is much easier to see with a light colored yarn and a large hook, after I get the stitch or pattern down then I use the recommended size hook and type of yarn. Please if you are a beginner, do not use a pattern with lots of color changes. It is also easier to make small items such as washcloths and afghan squares that can be whip stitched together later. The most important thing for a new crocheter is to learn that mistakes happen to everyone and to relax and enjoy the time you spen with your hook and yarn. Happy hooking.
Please read the directions carefully and relax. Crocheting is such a fine craft.
Keep your tension uniform. You do this by holding the yarn properly, such that you can easily control how loose or tight you make your stitches.
even tension!
The most important thing I have learned is that I can change my mind and that it is o.k. to go back and fix your mistakes. Just like life. And have fun.
p.s. that is why we call it frogging…….. because you will have to ribbit out! …………….thunk. thunk..is my mike on? No seriously, have fun. . anna
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Stop worrying! You Are going to make mistakes, no matter how long you have been crocheting. They are quite easy to pull out, and try again. RELAX, and have FUN!
The most important thing I have learned is that I can change my mind and that it is o.k. to go back and fix my mistakes. Just like life. And have fun.
p.s. that is why we call it frogging…….. because you will have to ribbit out! …………….thunk. thunk..is my mike on? No seriously, have fun. . anna
Rome wasn’t crocheted in a day. You have to start somewhere, so just start and don’t give up. Try, try again.
No-one was born knowing how to crochet! Although it’s frustrating to rip out, everyone has to once in a while and it’s just life. If doing a pattern using a new stitch order or technique, always do a practice piece, using a similar yarn, to see if what you’re doing works. Using scrap yarn saves your “new yarn”, bought for the project, from becoming frayed as you practice on the new pattern
I tell them that they should hold their hook whatever way feels more comfortable to them. I hold mine different than most and it works for me.
My best advice is, if a pattern doesn’t make sense when reading it through, then pick up a hook and some scrap yarn and try it out! After all, ALL crochet is formed from just a very few basic stitches. Also, if there is a technique you are unsure of, google it. Chances are, there is a video demonstration on YouTube. I am a completely self-taught crocheter and I have not yet had any question that the Internet can’t answer.
I have been crocheting since I was about 8 years old about 59 years. The best tip is to always make a swatch to make sure gauge is right. Everyone crocheted a little differently some looser some tighter. Do not obsess about it make a swatch use a different size hook if you need to. Relax and enjoy, I have received so much enjoyment from crocheting. It is such a stress reliever. Practice and make those swatches!
Crochet takes practice but remember you are only limited by your imagination. Try to learn to read patterns. I always teach the abbreviations for the stitch when I am teaching someone. I usually start them on a scarf or dishcloth. But don’t be afraid to learn new stitches and techniques. Also try different mediums: yarn, thread, pharm etc. Have fun once you learn there isn’t anything that you cannot make. Have patience not every learns or crochets at the same speed. Remember there are plenty of you tube videos and website besides people to help you learn. Enjoy!
Find a pattern you love. This keeps your interest, even when you are having issues with tension and hook size.
Start with a fairly big hook and chunky yarn, it makes it easier to see what you are doing and how the stitches look. Don’t worry about getting it perfect the first time and start with something easy to gain confidence.
Branch out of the chain stitch. Watch lots of tutorials, take your time. Don’t beat yourself up if you have to pull out rows, its part of the learning process. Just take your time and make progress with a learning curve.
Start with the basics and have lots of patience. If you get frustrated, put the project down and go back to it later. Sometimes, things just click when you go back to it after calming down. Make pieces that you find appealing and in colors that you like. If you don’t like certain colors, it seems like it takes a lot longer to complete. Finally….never give up! Keep practicing because it DOES get easier
Don’t let someone else tell you how you are supposed to hold your hook! I tried & failed many times to learn crochet from a friend who was determined her way was the only way to hold the hook. And since I had no idea otherwise I believed her. It was only thanks to a deep determination to continue & checking out several books before I realized I could hold the hook anyway that worked best for me!! LOL Go easy on yourself, this is a fun, relaxing & even deeply personal craft to do, so be happy & enjoy it! 🙂
Directions from English publications are different than American.
But more important…..
Never miss an opportunity to bud great yarn, and buy – at least 2 ( or 5) skeins at a time.
Always, always when putting down your work for the evening or whatever, pull up a long loop on your last stitch so that, in the event a child, hubby, cat should move it, pull on it, whatever, they are not pulling out all your stitching. Has saved me a few times.
Also, if you have animals in the house, you can put your yarn in a ziplock bag, feed the yarn out the opening, and crochet away. This keeps most of the pet hair off your yarn, hopefully, unless they sit in your lap while you work.
The yarn is going to do what ever you make it do. If it’s all in knots, it’s because you knotted it. If it’s beautiful, it’s because you made it beautiful. So just relax and don’t rush.
Once you have learned the basic, do not be afraid to try new stitches. with practices they will become easy also.
Relax! It’s supposed to be fun. There is no crochet police because there is no “one right way” to do it.
Learn to chain and get used to holding the hook learn to relax with it.If your holding it tight your stitches will be to tight. If you hold it to loose then your stitches will be to big. Just do chains for a little while until you have it perfect not to tight or to loose.It takes time and pratice.try doing a pot holder first using a hook you feel comfortable with and do single crochet back and forth. You’ll learn pratice makes perfect. And if you have to rip it out down worry some of the best crocher has to undo the work sometime.
You will get better, you will find your preferred grip and hook type. Crochet is easy to pull out if you make mistakes. Have patience just keep at it.
The #1 important thing for teaching…having a patient teacher! That’s the first characteristic my students compliment me on. What’s funny is…ALL my students and friends mention it…whether they are brand new to crochet or just learning a new stitch.
Relax! It’s not going to be perfect the first time and makes sure to understand the terms. If you don’t then it will seem like a different language. That’s where I use to lose people because they had no idea what I meant. Practice! Unless you are gifted then you will need to practice the stitches until you get a nice uniform look. Start with simple projects like coasters, place mats, rugs or blankets. If you follow a pattern, please make sure to check your gauge. If you mess up it’s ok because you can unravel it and start over. Most important thing is to relax. Yes, I said it again. The art of crochet is meant to be fun! Enjoy yourself and breathe.
Don’t be afraid to rip-it-out!! There is alot of yarn in this world- don’t worry about using “too much”- there is no such thing. Start simple & practice. Granny squares are the easiest to learn a little bit of everything. You tube is great. And lastly- this is not bigger than you- you will have that ah-ha moment when it will all click! Crocheting wouldn’t have lasted this long if it was really hard.
Make sure your hook color contrasts with your yarn, and you should learn to crochet with light-colored yarn so you can clearly see what you’re doing. (I personally recommend ecru or cream.) Also, pay attention to the instructions. (For instance, the instructions for this particular contest state to comment in the blog. As of this post, 160 people had commented on Facebook.)
Keep your chain flat and do not twist it as you are crocheting your first couple of rows. I am teaching sixth graders to crochet and I have run into that two times this week.
Another is to not skip stitches as you are crocheting a rectangle. You may end up with it almost a triangle. Saw that this week too. Have fun, relax, and don’t fuss about tearing out a few rows. I been crocheting for fifty years and I still need to on occasion.
Start by doing one stitch for say a half hour, then go on to a new stitch. That way you can see how you are proceding in order to get to know each stitch.
Lock the cats in a seperate room!!! Their curosity with the yarn is just too funny! Or you could leave them to play with the yarn at your feet for added enjoyment
Patience grasshopper…learn how to LIKE ripping out your mistakes and starting over. Also, start with something small like a dishcloth. and use light colored yarn so you can see your work better. Keep in mind, Ye shall stitch, so shall ye rip!
Don’t ever give up. My grandmother, my mother and the neighbor that taught me to knit, all tried to teach me how to crochet over the course of many years. I did not learn until I was expecting my first child, bought a book and taught myself. The best part is I helped my mother who had trouble understanding written patterns, but could crochet from a swatch. no matter what just keep trying!
Count, count, count…best way to stay on track and keep things even.
Get a ball of yarn that is easy to work with like Red Heart Super Saver, a crochet hook and practice, practice, practice. It takes time and lots of practice to get it looking good.
Don’t stop. The more you do, the easier it will become, the more it will make sense & the more confident you will become.
The UK and US have different crochet stitch explanations. Check what terminology the pattern is written in. Au follows UK terms. This also applies to hook and yarn ply’s, conversion charts, for all of the above, can be found freely on the internet.
Until you get control of your tension (this takes lots of practice) you should buy an extra skein of each color the pattern calls for. This way if you crochet loosely you will not run out before getting to the end of your project and make sure all skeins match the same dye lot (number printed on label usually near the color name). Skeins on the shelf may look the same but if the dye lot is not identical it can be seen in the finished product and experience has taught me that going back to the same store does not guarantee that you will be able to get the same dye lot on a different day. If you do not have to use the “extra” skeins you can always turn them into hats, scarves or save them up for granny squares.
Don’t be afraid to try. Experiment, play, have fun.
Stretch your fingers wide wrapping the yarn around the inside/out of your pinky finger over the back of your hand and keep and hold the proper tension in order for your each stitch to come out the same.
Start slow…have patience with yourself….and remember….40 years from now it will all be easy….oh and pick the colors you like best to work with….that way it’s always you in the process…..Have a great crochetting, knitting, and quilting day.
Well I would start off by telling them to try something easy first and crochet along with them so they can see how I hook, starting with with different style granny squares with a basic SC block, and work them into DC, and grannys started in the round, and other stitchs so at the end they have alot of squares they can use to make just about anything from blanket to slippers.
Basically start off learning the basic stitches, sc, hdc, dc, tr, inc, dec. Learn the terms for your region (IE A DC in america is a TR in Europe but they still call it a DC so know what region your patter is from)
Don’t start off with fancy yarn, eyelash or boucle are not easy to work with if you don’t know how to crochet yes they are pretty but as pretty as they are they are just as frustrating even to people who have been crocheting for years.
Last, don’t give up if you make a mistake just pull the stitches out, I remember making a hat for my sister, I made dozens of hats before and for some reason I just couldn’t get it right that time and I unraveled it at least 3 times before I got it to work. Stick with it and I am sure who ever gets what your working on (weather its you/family/friend) will love it.
i suggest you go out and buy a learn hoe book and follow the instructions to a T. thats how i learnt how to crochet and i have not regretted it.
Make sure you count the number of stitches on every row. It is very easy to lose a stitch when you are turning at the end of the row. I have been crocheting for over 40 years and find that when I rush and fail to count my stitches it usually ends in having to rip back my work. Rushing does not save time, it only slows you down in the long run. Needlework is meant to be enjoyed as a process. Savor each stitch instead of rushing headlong to finish your project.
Patience with yourself!
Practice, practice, practice…and don’t be discouraged. When I was young, my grandmother gave me a ball of yarn, a crochet hook and I turned the whole thing into a chain. That gave me the ‘motion’ of the needle and and idea of tension. She had me rip it out, then she started showing me stitches one at a time. If you don’t have a grandma, pick a simple pattern…a scarf with one basic stitch would be good and do that first. Don’t try to do an advanced pattern right away because it could be discouraging.. And remember, sometimes the ‘rip stitch’ is necessary.. don’t let it get you down!!! LOL
Start out with a friend showing you what to do. That person will correct any mistakes in how you hold the yarn, gauge etc. Videos are good, but there is nothing like an experience to get you going on the right foot!
my top tip for new crocheters is to pick yarns in colors you REALLY like, because you’ll be pretty slow for the first bit, and will be looking at a project for a long time. When i’m teaching beginners, my default yarn is brightly colored worsted weight cotton yarn, and when they’ve finished their first swatch, it’s immediately useful (as a dishcloth, or doubled and seamed as a potholder). It makes for a fast, fun project!
It is so wonderful to see what you can make with a hook and yarn/string/ribbon/wire..Keep at it, every day practice till you are making new items in your sleep..Very fulfilling to see new projects emerge from your own two hands..
RELAX,RELAX,RELAX………how fast or slow you go doesn’t matter..just practice,practice,practice!
My number one Tip is be Patient. Be patient your not going to be perfect when you first start. Be patient it takes time to crochet so don’t give up. Be patient it even takes me time to learn a new project (some times) and i have been doing it for 20 years. Big number One tip is to be PATIENT. Being Patient will in the long run see your project come out nice and pretty..
Never too old to try – have fun with it – it really helps to have someone to answer questions and give a helping hand – I work with seniors in a nursing home and some of them do really well although its slow going so you really have to encourage them – old or young if you’re enjoying it – that’s what really counts
Start with a smaller project such as a dishcloth and work up to a bigger project like a blanket. If you do that, it won’t feel quite so overwhelming to learn.
lock the cats up!! or let them play with the yarn at your feet if you like live entertainment 🙂
The only dumb question is the one that isn’t asked. Some patterns are harder to read than others so ask someone that’s been crocheting for awhile, they’ll be happy to help. Remember they were first timers once too.
Make sure to “Crochet Til The end Stitch” you may not be able to see it but it’s there.
Crochet Til The End Stitch. Also once you go hook’n you will never go back to cook’n. You will swear you don’t have an addiction.